Tuesday, November 19, 2024

December 13, 1946

Is it possible I played as a kid with someone who was born in 1946? Yes, when you're born in 1949 and that person is only 25 months older than you.

In a typical chain reaction of thought that was kicked off by reading a recent story about Keen's Steakhouse in the NYT, I once again came to dwell on my childhood friend George A. Trampler, the only child of our upstairs tenants when I was growing up in Flushing, NY.

I've often thought about George and the particular circumstances of how he passed away at 22 in 1969 from encephalitis contracted at Fort Dix, NJ during his Army training. But this time I went a little further. I Googled if those kinds of cases were common to Fort Dix. It turns out they were on several occasions.

George and his mother and father and his paternal grandfather moved into our upstairs apartment in our two-family home in Flushing some time in the 1950s. I really don't remember exactly when, other than it was the winter

George was an only child like myself, and we came fast friends that first winter playing outside in the snow. He went to the local Catholic elementary school, St. Andrew of Avellino, where eventually my girls started their education.

I remember George talking of his Latin homework in high school, conjugating verbs in Latin and reading Cicero. Might have even been in elementary school. I went to P.S. 22 around the corner, and Latin is what was on pennies.

George and his grandfather slept in the same bedroom. His grandfather, whose name I don't remember, it might have also been George like George's father, had been a concert pianist of some regard. I don't know how they got a grand piano in the upstairs living room on the second floor. I never remember it being moved in, or out, when they left some time in the early '60s.

The grandfather's playing could be heard downstair in our place. Nothing intrusive, but my mother always said he was playing "finger exercises." There were stacks of sheet music all over the piano when I played with George upstairs.

George didn't play baseball or touch football in the street with the rest of boys on the block, but he and I were always playing at his place, usually Monopoly. The Tramplers were big Monopoly players and would leave unfinished games out to be finished later.

George and I played so much Monopoly that I memorialized a picture of a board showing the tokens we always chose. The game in the '50s came with wooden tokens, before the metal pieces came to be used. I always took the orange piece; he the adjacent white piece.

Together he and I devised an extension of the board to be added alongside St. Mark's Place as a detour. We identified property names, created deeds and amounts. You came back to the standard board at the Electric Utility property.

We didn't play with a $500 bill to be scooped up if you landed on FREE PARKING. That was unknown to us.

George never came downstairs to play at my place. I don't know why that was. My mother was not social with too many people on the block. George's mother may have kept a tight rein on where he went.

George got into taking home movies. He saved his allowance money and bought a Bell & Howell movie camera, light bar, screen, and splicing unit. (Not all at once.) How'd I love to see those movies again. Not going to happen. 

I don't remember when the Tramplers moved out. I know I was too upset to join my folks in saying goodbye. As it went, that would have been the last time seeing my friend.

This whole rekindled memory was touched off my a recent NYT story on Kean's Steak House on West 36th Street. I've eaten there twice, and I knew of its connection to the Lambs Club, but not fully.

It seems Keens Steakhouse was started by Albert Keen in 1885, a theater producer who ran the Lambs Club, a hangout for theatrical folk. And the Lambs Club is where the Tramplers come in.

George's father, also named George, was a manager at the Lambs Club at 130 West 44th Street. The Club has since moved to 3 West 51st Street. There is a very upscale restaurant named Lambs on West 44th Street.

The father was a tall, distinguished, good looking man who my father said must be playing the horses, since the $125 in rent was often paid with a $100 bill, common to racetracks, then and now.

The Tramplers were good tenants, and were never behind in any rent, which I'm sure, knowing my father, was going for way below the market rate.

The upstairs apartment was equal to our downstair apartment in size, having two bedrooms an enclosed porch, one full bath, living room, kitchen and dining room. There was plenty of sunlight that came into the upstairs apartment.

The kitchen however was never modernized. My father did little to upgrade things. Our downstairs kitchen had a cupboard, cabinets, Formica counters and a kitchen table wedged between the stove and the refrigerator that you had to pull out to sit at. Upstairs, there were no cabinets, only a small counter, table and the same cupboard like we had.

Eventually, my father installed separate oil heating units in the cellar for each apartment, with the proviso that the Tramplers paid for their own fuel. They were happy to do so in lieu of any rent increase. Oil was very cheap then, maybe 11¢ a gallon. 

The separate burners eliminated the enormous, inefficient oil burner that was installed to heat both levels after the coal furnace was replaced. Before I was born, coal was chuted through cellar windows by the driveway into a bin. My parents initially were shoveling coal into the furnace with shovels. We still had the long-handled coal shovels and used them for shoveling snow.

The Tramplers moved out when the father got a job managing a country club in Riverside, Connecticut. The only contact we ever had after they moved was when we heard that the son, George, had passed away from encephalitis at Fort Dix, where the story went he was undergoing R.O.T.C. training.

George had gone to the local Catholic high school, Holy Cross in Flushing, and then Fordham University to study business. Digging into this a bit I can't reconcile the R.O.T.C. bit and passing away at 22, buried in Long Island National Cemetery in Farmingdale, NY with a headstone at says PVT ARMY.

If an R.O.T.C. program is completed, and at 22 George was old enough and smart enough to have finished college, you get a commission in the Army as a 2nd Lieutenant.

George was born on Friday the 13th in 1946 and passed away on March 18, 1969. When we learned of George's passing it was sometime after he had died. We learned the parents passed away sometime after. 

George was the second of four boys I knew in the neighborhood who didn't make it such much past their 20s. One went to drugs, another to drugs after coming home from Vietnam. Another, an elementary school classmate of mine, went to an accident with a CO2 cartridge he was fiddling with for a science project that he punctured, that exploded and ripped him apart. I used to keep the Daily News story of his death in my wallet for the longest time.

If a young male in his 20s can keep living, he might make it to 75 and wonder where the time went.

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